The Walk and Talk Process
The power of Walk and Talk lies
in the effectiveness of the listening process. Each participant
on a Walk and Talk undertakes the role of both the Talker, and
of the Listener, on separate occassions. The listening process
is outlined below:
The word 'listening' does convey the idea
that we are there at the service of the speaker, and it does
avoid any sense that our role is to debate or suggest. Our role
is primarily to listen, and to reflect, and to empathise with
the speaker by building up a complete understanding of their
situation with regard to the issue they have introduced.
To the more activist of us, this might sound
too passive, and yet our experience is that listening in the
right way (being there wholeheartedly with the speaker) is very
powerful: It encourages clarity of the problem, its context,
its implications and its logic; It unearths blindspots, inconsistencies,
narrowness, and thereby new opportunities; It provides recalibration
and thereby increased confidence and pragmatism; It builds new
resolve (and a degree of accountability for delivering on it).
Steps to listening
Developing the complete picture
As you listen, and gently ask appropriate
questions, your own thinking processes and logic are likely to
ensure that the most important avenues are explored, assumptions
are tested, and gaps are identified so the best advice in encouraging
the narrative is to (gently and sensitively) 'follow your nose'.
However, this isn't foolproof, and you may
be left with a nagging doubt that you have missed something somewhere.
If this is the case you might find the following helpful in identifying
any potentially fruitful ground that you have ignored. It can
be remembered by the acronym 'PROBE' (for some people an unfortunate
phrase more reminiscent of inquisition).
It isn't intended to be followed slavishly,
but is there as an aide-memoir if the narrative gets bogged down
or dries up (other than in reflective silence).
Mnemonic |
Rational / Left Brain |
Emotional / Right Brain |
Profile |
How they know they have a problem?
The importance and implications? |
What it feels like; how it affects
them?
What would success look/feel like? |
Root
Cause |
What lies at the root of their problem?
How they concluded this (evidence)? |
What tensions exist for them?
Why they feel responsibility? (Values?) |
Options |
What options they have considered?
How comprehensive are their sources? |
How they feel about the options?
What would a 'magical' solution be? |
Balance |
How they chose which options to
take?
What are the implications of the choice? |
What they feel like doing?
What they feel about doing it? |
Evaluation |
How they will evaluate whether they
have been successful? |
How they feel about it all (in summary),
after thinking it through with you? |
Explicitly agreeing the process for listening
All of the above is simply a suggested process
that I hope will be productive for you. But you might have your
own ideas, or more importantly the person you are listening to
may have theirs. Feel free to agree a different process between
you if you wish, and if it suits you both.
This may be done at the start of the walk,
or in the middle, or at any point when the process you are using
isn't working for the person being listened to.
On this point, it is a good idea to check
about half way through the walk how well the process is working,
even if things appear to be fine. Simply taking a second to ask
"How is this working for us?" should do the trick
At the end of the walk, take a moment to
reflect back on your effectiveness as a listener (remember part
of this time is about developing our skills in this area. Discussing
the following reflective questions with your partner may help
you to do this:
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How
well can you articulate the problem and identify with the person
you were listening to? |
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What
of your questions/approach/attitude was helpful to the person
you were listening to? |
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What
of your questions/approach/attitude hindered the person you were
listening to? |
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